Speaking · Dr. Carli Blau
Conversations that change how people understand themselves.
Keynotes. Conferences. Universities. Corporate events. Media.
Dr. Carli Blau is a psychotherapist, sex therapist, educator and founder of The Blau Method™ whose work examines the gap between what people understand intellectually and what they are actually able to change. She speaks about sexuality, relationships, human behavior, emotional regulation, desire, identity and the patterns people repeat—even when they know better.
Signature Ideas
Ideas Dr. Carli speaks about.
- 01
The Knowing–Doing Gap
Why self-awareness doesn't automatically create change—and what does.
- 02
The Sexless Epidemic
What disappearing desire in long-term relationships can tell us about intimacy, identity, resentment and modern partnership.
- 03
Where Did My Desire Go?
Why desire changes over time—and why trying to simply "get your libido back" may be asking the wrong question.
- 04
The Myth of Better Communication
Why couples can become extremely good at communicating and still remain completely stuck.
- 05
When Insight Becomes Avoidance
How understanding ourselves can become another way of avoiding the discomfort required to change.
Available For
- Keynotes
- Conferences
- Universities
- Corporate Events
- Panels
- Podcasts
- Media Commentary
- Professional Education
Past Speaking
Recent stages.
January 25, 2024
Women for Women Today
Panelist · Female empowerment panel
June 3, 2023
The Breasties · Camp Breastie
Panelist · Sex and empowerment for patients living with cancer and chronic illness
March 18, 2018
EndoFound Patient Day · Lenox Hill Hospital
Speaker · Endometriosis Foundation of America
More engagements
- 2022
&Oh Experience Launch · Hanky Panky
The Museum of Sex, New York
- 2022
Sex Over 40: Menopause and Feminine Self-Love
Jewish Federation of New Jersey
- 2022
Sex Under 40: Motherhood and Feminine Self-Love
Jewish Federation of New Jersey
- 2020
Sex and Cancer
Mount Sinai Hospital · Women's Oncology Support Group
- 2019
Women's Health Panel
Robyn / FertileGirl
- 2019
Endometriosis and Sexual Functioning
Endometriosis Foundation of America · Patient Awareness Day, Lenox Hill Hospital
- 2017 · 2018
Guest Lecturer, Sex Education
Long Island University Post
- Workshop
Pelvic Health Summit
Virtual workshop
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