relational therapy




I'm ready to get to know you, the real question is:
are you ready to get to know yourself?

My name is Carli Blau and I believe in relational therapy. I help people work on the relationship they have with themselves to find the self-love and confidence to create the life, love, sex, relationships and careers they want, and so very much deserve.


For 10+ years I've been in the field of sex and relationships working in private practice to help individuals and couples. I have extensive training and continued education in sex and relationship issues, which provides safety and comfort to clients around these topics. 

Some of the most common presenting stressors in my practice include:

  • self-love, empowerment and confidence building

  • relationship stress in romantic relationships and families

  • dating anxiety

  • life stressors and career counseling

  • managing sexual desire & sexual functioning

  • women's health: i.e. infertility, endometriosis

  • men's sexual health: performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction

  • pelvic floor dysfunction, vaginismus, vulvodynia, dyspareunia

  • re-kindling sexual desire


My approach to therapy is challenging yet warm-hearted.  I believe that we grow the most when we're given tools to hold ourselves accountable for the decisions and choices we make in our lives. Through therapy I work to empower your heart, mind and soul and through this we create the life you want for yourself.


I have worked hard to become the go-to sex therapist for helping women rediscover their sexual functioning and desire after experiencing a loss of their desire and arousal from life stress, pain or trauma. 

You're going to sleep with one person for the rest of your life and they better be the best sex you've ever had, and the person you love the most...and that person is YOU