Carli Blau is one of NYC's most sought after individual and

couples therapists who helps people find self-love and confidence

within themselves to create the life, love, sex, and relationships

they want and so very much deserve.


As a licensed psychotherapist, Carli provides support for 

regular life stressors. The difference between Carli and other

therapists is that she has continued education and training in

sex and relationship issues, which provides a safety and comfort

around these topics.  


With her challenging yet warm-hearted approach, clients who work

with Carli are held accountable for their choices in life and

empowered to use their heart, mind, and soul to create the life they

want for themselves. 

Carli works as a psychotherapist with individuals to tackle all

presenting stressors including anxiety and depression.  She also

specializes in relationships and sexual health-related topics such

as managing sexual desire and functioning with infertility,

endometriosis, pelvic floor dysfunction, vaginismus, vulvodynia,

and re-kindling sexual desire post-diagnosis. Carli has become

the go-to sex therapist for helping women rediscover their sexual functioning and desire after experiencing a loss of their desire and arousal from pain or trauma. 


Carli has been featured in ​many publications and has lectured for many organizations about sex, relationships and her work and doctoral research around infertility and sexual esteem.

Carli has a Master's Degree in Social Work from Columbia University, and a Master's Degree in Sex Education from Widener University. She is a Ph.D. Candidate in Clinical Sex Therapy with a focus on infertility and sexual esteem. She received her certification in Perinatal Mental Health from the Seleni Institute in NY. Carli is also now qualified to practice Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing, also known as EMDR, a form of psychotherapy utilizing rapid eye movements to desensitize the brain from traumatic emotional responses connected to experiences stored in long-term memory. 

 She's a featured provider for We Are Robyn, an online women's platform created to support parents and women in pregnancy and motherhood. Carli is an IVF warrior, mom of two kids, three dogs and loves dancing in the moonlight because life is just too short to do anything else. 

Want to work with Carli or another therapist on her team? We'd love to hear from you and support you in your journey to finding the best you. 

You're going to sleep with one person for the rest of your life and they better be the best sex you've ever had, and the person you love the most...and that person is YOU