Struggling with low desire or feeling distant in your relationship? The answer might not be “more sex,” but learning the power of non-sexual sexual affection. This type of intentional touch—like long hugs, lingering kisses, or playful closeness—builds intimacy without pressure. In this blog, Dr. Carli Blau, LCSW, Ph.D., M.Ed., explains what non-sexual sexual affection is, why it can feel uncomfortable at first, and how practicing it in couples therapy can transform a sexless relationship into one that feels connected, safe, and sexually fulfilled again.